How time flies. Before you know, 21 years has just gone by just like that. Ams till up at this hour cause i cant sleep. Load of stuff on my mind. Its like 7am now, and im pretty sure i've got a long day ahead of me. But there's so mant things coming up in my mind.
For starters, things that had happened last year. Last year was a pretty shitty year, and i still remember my birthday last year and i can promise you it was nothing close to how awesome this year's bday went! All i can remember bout my bday last year was that i went out with Bec to get a shirt. Nothing fancy, nothing much to really shout about. But when compared to this year... WOW! A totally big difference. My girl... She's been practically the best thing that's happened to me!! Im so happy now that im with her, NO! MORE THAN HAPPY!
This year, for my bday, she went through so much just for me. No one has ever done that before for me! My last post was a real fucked up one, but that was only because of Abbie. She made me feel so upset bout everything! And why? Just so that she can supprise me. And i have to give her credit for going through all that just for me. Thanks b! To the extend that i broke down completly, but with the idea of supprising me, im just so thankful.
She planned with the guys to freaking kidnap me from my room, and take me to some random place to bday bash me. I was tied up, blind folded, make a cake out of me, watered and a little roughing... but it was all worth it because all my close friends were there! Am a little bumbed cause Abbie, you had to leave so early. But i totally understand. Still love you!
King ji
Mischa
J|n
Ivan
Justin
Jessie
Lavonne
And my favorite, ABBIE WONG!!!
Thanks for being a part of my 21st bday!
Right now im so thankfull for everything thats been happening to me in the past and now. Im 21 years old now, "officially" an adult. There ars just so many things happening and its all happening so fast. Am not sure if im able to cope with everything thats going on.
I'll be leaving for Aus in about a month from now, and i have a shit load of things to take care off...
Not sure why im a little moody, maybe its just cause i dont wanna grow up just yet. Dont get me wrong, i really am happy bout things that are going on now, its all so new, interesting and freaking awesome! But still... there are things that still bother me a little...
Expectations...
At this age, many people expect alot from you. Especially my family, as the oldest, im expected to do way more to contribute and set an example. I dont think i have done very much for even myself. In other words, im 21 now and i haven't yet done anything great with my life. Hmph... Even im expecting more from myself.
Honestly right now, im just so thankfull to have friends like the ones i have. Friends who have been there for me all the while, when i was my lowest and highest, they were always there. If i needed money they were there, when i need a shoulder to cry they were there, when i was troubled they were there to lend a hand however they could. I really thank God for the people in my life right now. Those who have helped me to become the person i am today. Am not very proud of myself right now, but i know that with people like these in my life, im ganna be the best i can be!
Abbie, thanks for helping me out all the time and always being there for me. Im sorry for always finding fault in you, and throwing it at you. I will try to change my old habbits and make new ones, ones that will make you happy and proud. You have no idea how happy and thankfull i am, that God has brought you into my life. And the best part is, you're all mine. And i promise that im ganna love you till the end of time!
Dont care what others say bout the things i say here. You think im sad or pathetic saying this like this? Well, you dont have someone so great in your life like i do, so you can fuck off again, again and another fucking time AGAIN!
There are just so many things right now i need to take care off, and i'd better make sure i become a better guy. For starters, i think i'll just try to mature a little faster and be more responsible with my life.
Thanks to my family who took the time to usher in my bday. Roughly 21 years and 7 hours ago, that was the day and time i was born. Now 21 years later, here i am. I wanna make you proud mom and dad. Only because you have done so much for me, like EVERYTHING SINCE THE DAY I WAS BORN!!!!
Again, thank you all those who helped out with the supprise, contributed and attended the supprise. Was really touched, but i tunjuk macho a bit =p
Oh and thanks for the present mom and dad +D Its a really cool present!
And to my girl...
I love you again, again and another freaking AGAIN!!!!
Thursday, June 10, 2010
Tuesday, June 8, 2010
blame
Whos to blame? It looks like lately i've been being a real pain in the fucking ass. Always complaining bout something, and looks like i've been finding all sorts of reasons to argue. Have i always been like that? In the years before? I dont remember arguing so much with anyone before. hmm.. Cant really figure out why i've been like this...
All i can say is, if there is no problem i wouldn't say or complain bout anything, which i think is reasonable for me to say. I guess im probably more sensitive to things, but can anyone blame me for being the way i am? I mean if something is bothering me i'd voice it out. But everytime i do, i end up being the bad guy. Sometimes if there's a fault, i say it, maybe with the intention of helping the other party realize it, for he/she might not know what's been going on.
True maybe sometimes i can be harsh and might probably say things out of line, but most of the times with everyone, if there is something wrong, i voice it out cause i care. Friends who are just bumbing around, i advise them to maybe do something productive, friends with problems i tell them whats what... And i get the blame for pointing out their mistakes/faults?
Im not saying im perfect of anything, but most of the times, people dont tell me shit bout myself. So if i sometimes fuck up without knowing it and no one tells me, well i dont think all the blame should be push on me right...?
Im trying to be a good guy, trying to do whats right, take responsiblity for things and people around me. But everytime i do, well most of the time, i do something wrong.
Sometimes i feel like i've been taken advantage off, taken forgranted by people, even some of my closest friends... whos to blame? Them for taking my for granted, or me for letting them do so... Is it wrong to ask for a little appriciation. A good example would be with friends. Friends whome= i;ve known for several years! Just push my out of their lives, and one day, they'll come to me asking for something, for help and etc. And i think im just too stupid and too nice to give in to them. Am trying not to be such a nice guy and im trying to be a nice guy at the same time.
I've been trying to be someone else just so that everyone will be happy. WHen im myself, well things get fucked up... Shall i continue to satisfy others? hmm...
I;ve got something so great in my life now, and i honestly dont know why, but things are looking real fucked up now. No one knows bout whats going on now...
I've always hated being compared too or reffered too as someone else, espicially if its someone i dont really fancy. Lately i've been compared and reffered too countless times. Really thought i was different to you, someone special that had an impact in your life, a positive one... But it looks like im no different from anyone else. Im just another person to you, well today it kinda looks like it...
When i care, it makes you unhappy, when i dont care it makes you unhappy, when i dont know waht to do, im just useless. Wish i had a fucking manual for my life.
Its June, and things are looking real fucked up, and its only the first week of the month. Oh am leaving for Aus in July btw =) There are just too many things happening too fast. Am feeling pressured so much by so many people. Especially my parents, whom compare me with the extended family.
I dont want no fucking party this year only because i dont see it as something that special for whatever reason. Thinking that life's been pretty good lately? Well guess nothing really lasts forever. But im still determined to make certain things last FOREVER! Anways, i dont want a party cause to me, it just looks like another day going by. So... yea... Just another day.
Maybe thats why i;ve been argueing alot, maybe its my fault that i;ve been the cause of all these problems. Maybe cause im just pressured and frustrated from the pressure, that im taking it out on arguements, every small thing. When i do, people get angry. Sometimes it feels as if i have no rights to be mad or show my unhappiness. Maybe i should REALLY FUCKING learn to keep things to myself and shut my mouth. Had learnt a lesson early this month, and the lesson of the month for me is "Just keep my mouth shut and dont fight back, cause by just taking whatever is thrown at you, everyone can just be happy." And its looking like thats a real lesson there cause when i voice out a problem it turns ugly...
Everything i do, i say, i think, there is a reason for all these. I dont do things just out of randomness. There is a reason for everything i do.
You say you want space, fine, i'll give you all the space you need. I'll back off. Take as much space as you like, forget bout me for a while, maybe a week or something. Take all the time you need with all the space you have. I'll just wait for the green light when i can take away that space to be close with you again. Just hope that this "space" is nothing more than just space...
No one reads this anyways, no one knows bout this stupid sad lame blog anyways. And if the intended individual does not read this, well then i guess some of the messages above is just, well... just sad.... =,=
Am fucking up the one thing that's so great in my life, and im not sure why im doing so... have a car just smash into me...!!!
I dont know man, dont even know what im saying anymore. People say that sometimes when you;ve got a problem, you should talk it out and it, for some reason, feels better. Well i dont really have anyone to talk too right now bout my situation, so just talking it out here is just an alternative i guess. i know... SAD again... THis blog is like my therapist for free.
You know i'll always be there for you. Just because i complain bout certain things bout you, does not mean anything. Does not mean i love you less, or stop loving you. Im human, and i do get angry sometimes, and when im angry i react in an angry manner just like everyone else.!
Its 3 in the fucking morning and i dont feel like sleeping, have nothing to do right now but just think... Fuck man... Kinda feel like just floating around in a pool, looking up in the sky and just think of nothing. Just relax, take a break from all this hot air all around me.
If people complain bout things a number of times, normally means theres something wrong, thus something should be done bout it. I know people have been complaining bout several things, like my temper, my disiplin, my responsibilities and etc. I am doing something bout it, but one by one, one at a time. Fuck man am just crapping here now... Dont know what 'space' means... Cant really figure it out...
Tell me you want space, and you say thanks... Whats that suppose to mean?? Cant get that out of my mind right now... all i can think of right now is nobody else but you...
Like i've said, i'll always be there right by your side, always. But now you pushed my away just so that you can have your space, thats fine. I dont know how much space you need, and how far you wanna push me away and how long you want that space between us. Just hope that its not too long, and that you'll get back to me when you've had enough space, enough time for yourself...
Love you...
All i can say is, if there is no problem i wouldn't say or complain bout anything, which i think is reasonable for me to say. I guess im probably more sensitive to things, but can anyone blame me for being the way i am? I mean if something is bothering me i'd voice it out. But everytime i do, i end up being the bad guy. Sometimes if there's a fault, i say it, maybe with the intention of helping the other party realize it, for he/she might not know what's been going on.
True maybe sometimes i can be harsh and might probably say things out of line, but most of the times with everyone, if there is something wrong, i voice it out cause i care. Friends who are just bumbing around, i advise them to maybe do something productive, friends with problems i tell them whats what... And i get the blame for pointing out their mistakes/faults?
Im not saying im perfect of anything, but most of the times, people dont tell me shit bout myself. So if i sometimes fuck up without knowing it and no one tells me, well i dont think all the blame should be push on me right...?
Im trying to be a good guy, trying to do whats right, take responsiblity for things and people around me. But everytime i do, well most of the time, i do something wrong.
Sometimes i feel like i've been taken advantage off, taken forgranted by people, even some of my closest friends... whos to blame? Them for taking my for granted, or me for letting them do so... Is it wrong to ask for a little appriciation. A good example would be with friends. Friends whome= i;ve known for several years! Just push my out of their lives, and one day, they'll come to me asking for something, for help and etc. And i think im just too stupid and too nice to give in to them. Am trying not to be such a nice guy and im trying to be a nice guy at the same time.
I've been trying to be someone else just so that everyone will be happy. WHen im myself, well things get fucked up... Shall i continue to satisfy others? hmm...
I;ve got something so great in my life now, and i honestly dont know why, but things are looking real fucked up now. No one knows bout whats going on now...
I've always hated being compared too or reffered too as someone else, espicially if its someone i dont really fancy. Lately i've been compared and reffered too countless times. Really thought i was different to you, someone special that had an impact in your life, a positive one... But it looks like im no different from anyone else. Im just another person to you, well today it kinda looks like it...
When i care, it makes you unhappy, when i dont care it makes you unhappy, when i dont know waht to do, im just useless. Wish i had a fucking manual for my life.
Its June, and things are looking real fucked up, and its only the first week of the month. Oh am leaving for Aus in July btw =) There are just too many things happening too fast. Am feeling pressured so much by so many people. Especially my parents, whom compare me with the extended family.
I dont want no fucking party this year only because i dont see it as something that special for whatever reason. Thinking that life's been pretty good lately? Well guess nothing really lasts forever. But im still determined to make certain things last FOREVER! Anways, i dont want a party cause to me, it just looks like another day going by. So... yea... Just another day.
Maybe thats why i;ve been argueing alot, maybe its my fault that i;ve been the cause of all these problems. Maybe cause im just pressured and frustrated from the pressure, that im taking it out on arguements, every small thing. When i do, people get angry. Sometimes it feels as if i have no rights to be mad or show my unhappiness. Maybe i should REALLY FUCKING learn to keep things to myself and shut my mouth. Had learnt a lesson early this month, and the lesson of the month for me is "Just keep my mouth shut and dont fight back, cause by just taking whatever is thrown at you, everyone can just be happy." And its looking like thats a real lesson there cause when i voice out a problem it turns ugly...
Everything i do, i say, i think, there is a reason for all these. I dont do things just out of randomness. There is a reason for everything i do.
You say you want space, fine, i'll give you all the space you need. I'll back off. Take as much space as you like, forget bout me for a while, maybe a week or something. Take all the time you need with all the space you have. I'll just wait for the green light when i can take away that space to be close with you again. Just hope that this "space" is nothing more than just space...
No one reads this anyways, no one knows bout this stupid sad lame blog anyways. And if the intended individual does not read this, well then i guess some of the messages above is just, well... just sad.... =,=
Am fucking up the one thing that's so great in my life, and im not sure why im doing so... have a car just smash into me...!!!
I dont know man, dont even know what im saying anymore. People say that sometimes when you;ve got a problem, you should talk it out and it, for some reason, feels better. Well i dont really have anyone to talk too right now bout my situation, so just talking it out here is just an alternative i guess. i know... SAD again... THis blog is like my therapist for free.
You know i'll always be there for you. Just because i complain bout certain things bout you, does not mean anything. Does not mean i love you less, or stop loving you. Im human, and i do get angry sometimes, and when im angry i react in an angry manner just like everyone else.!
Its 3 in the fucking morning and i dont feel like sleeping, have nothing to do right now but just think... Fuck man... Kinda feel like just floating around in a pool, looking up in the sky and just think of nothing. Just relax, take a break from all this hot air all around me.
If people complain bout things a number of times, normally means theres something wrong, thus something should be done bout it. I know people have been complaining bout several things, like my temper, my disiplin, my responsibilities and etc. I am doing something bout it, but one by one, one at a time. Fuck man am just crapping here now... Dont know what 'space' means... Cant really figure it out...
Tell me you want space, and you say thanks... Whats that suppose to mean?? Cant get that out of my mind right now... all i can think of right now is nobody else but you...
Like i've said, i'll always be there right by your side, always. But now you pushed my away just so that you can have your space, thats fine. I dont know how much space you need, and how far you wanna push me away and how long you want that space between us. Just hope that its not too long, and that you'll get back to me when you've had enough space, enough time for yourself...
Love you...
Friday, May 7, 2010
Go figure...
What i have done in the past i cannot change. What i CAN do is something about it. I've made some pretty bad decisions before and it looks like im paying for it now. For those who knew what i've went through last year, then you'll know what im talking about. And NO im not only talking bout my "love life", but im talking bout things in general.
Im admit im no perfect guy, or even close to anything perfect. Most of the time i dont think enough before i act or react to certain situations. Well i guess that's just the fucked up part bout me. I always try to please everyone, well at least "try" to give them what i want. Have always been doing that all my life, till it came a time when i started to realize..."Hey, what bout what i want?"
Before, whenever i could offer a helping hand, i'd do it. Most of the time it'll be for friends, and honestly i'd be MORE THAN HAPPY to help out! Most of the times.. lol. But still i do want to help out my friends however i can. To the extend that i put myself in such a situation that not only does it not benefit me, but fucks things up for me. I either do something wrong, or get scolding for it. Either way, i get into trouble, and thats just fucked up man...
About the past... I cannot erase the things i've done, but try to make the best out of it. Not only for my past, but for anyone else. If you've fucked up before, well try not to fuck up again! In mu situation, i dont think im doing a very good job trying to NOT fuck up things again. Its everything i think, do, say that's just wrong. Have made a million mistakes before and im trying to fix it. I dont believe in people saying "hey we'll just see what happens" when it comes to something rather important or serious. Hate being in the dark!
I was young, naive and foolish. Who i was before this is not the same person i am today. I dont want to be looked at as the guy i was before for i am not proud of who i was. In fact, im a little more proud of who i am today! And im moving forward with whatever i have left with me. Problem is, the past is always there. Right behind me, waiting to find a reaons, an excuse, a fucking chance to just ruin things.
Im sorry for the things i've done and said before. I did not know what or even who i was then. I was blinded, but now my eyes have been opened and i see clearly what is going on. Im moving on, there is no point crying over and over again over spilled milk. YOu fucked up? Cry it out, whine it out, shout it out if you have to, but get over it! Learn from your fucked upness and move on. Im trying to do that, but the fucking past keeps chasing me and just bites me in the ass!!
I dont know if its true or not, but i get the feeling that some important people in my life are giving up on me. Saying, "Oh, no worries there's always something/someone else..." I mean come on man! Even if its true, you dont have to go and say it out loud! I know im not perfect and im sorry for being who i am.
Im not blogging bout this for pity, for those who think im asking for your pity? Well fuck you over and over again! Im just saying whats going on. The title of this blog is My Life. Dont like what you've been reading? You are more than welcome to fuck off!
Instead of making you happy, i seem to be making your unhappiness out number the happy times. I just wanna be a better man, but everything i seem to do just seems wrong. I think i just need to grow up a lot more and a lot faster, cause this shit aint doin no body no good... FML...
Im admit im no perfect guy, or even close to anything perfect. Most of the time i dont think enough before i act or react to certain situations. Well i guess that's just the fucked up part bout me. I always try to please everyone, well at least "try" to give them what i want. Have always been doing that all my life, till it came a time when i started to realize..."Hey, what bout what i want?"
Before, whenever i could offer a helping hand, i'd do it. Most of the time it'll be for friends, and honestly i'd be MORE THAN HAPPY to help out! Most of the times.. lol. But still i do want to help out my friends however i can. To the extend that i put myself in such a situation that not only does it not benefit me, but fucks things up for me. I either do something wrong, or get scolding for it. Either way, i get into trouble, and thats just fucked up man...
About the past... I cannot erase the things i've done, but try to make the best out of it. Not only for my past, but for anyone else. If you've fucked up before, well try not to fuck up again! In mu situation, i dont think im doing a very good job trying to NOT fuck up things again. Its everything i think, do, say that's just wrong. Have made a million mistakes before and im trying to fix it. I dont believe in people saying "hey we'll just see what happens" when it comes to something rather important or serious. Hate being in the dark!
I was young, naive and foolish. Who i was before this is not the same person i am today. I dont want to be looked at as the guy i was before for i am not proud of who i was. In fact, im a little more proud of who i am today! And im moving forward with whatever i have left with me. Problem is, the past is always there. Right behind me, waiting to find a reaons, an excuse, a fucking chance to just ruin things.
Im sorry for the things i've done and said before. I did not know what or even who i was then. I was blinded, but now my eyes have been opened and i see clearly what is going on. Im moving on, there is no point crying over and over again over spilled milk. YOu fucked up? Cry it out, whine it out, shout it out if you have to, but get over it! Learn from your fucked upness and move on. Im trying to do that, but the fucking past keeps chasing me and just bites me in the ass!!
I dont know if its true or not, but i get the feeling that some important people in my life are giving up on me. Saying, "Oh, no worries there's always something/someone else..." I mean come on man! Even if its true, you dont have to go and say it out loud! I know im not perfect and im sorry for being who i am.
Im not blogging bout this for pity, for those who think im asking for your pity? Well fuck you over and over again! Im just saying whats going on. The title of this blog is My Life. Dont like what you've been reading? You are more than welcome to fuck off!
Instead of making you happy, i seem to be making your unhappiness out number the happy times. I just wanna be a better man, but everything i seem to do just seems wrong. I think i just need to grow up a lot more and a lot faster, cause this shit aint doin no body no good... FML...
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
GirlFriend...
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These are my girlfriend! Am more than happy with this chick! She's hot, pretty, cute, smart, awesome, hot, pretty, sexy, funny, awesome, smart, sexy and loads more!
Hearts you Abbie!
Sunday, February 28, 2010
First post of 2010...
Its kinda interesting how things in life can turn out far away from anything you expected. Its funny how things that seems so simple and fixed, can just turn itself inside out right before your very eyes and before you know it its too late to turn back? Yea life can sometimes be full of shit and there can be periods where there’s just nothing great bout life, but at the end of the day, there always seems to be a silver lining. You just gatta know where to look.
Last year was an extremely interesting year for me. New things came in life and old things in life, well some of it left. Im no longer depressed I can say proudly. Well at least no longer a sad pathetic little fuck anymore. I’ve matured in so many different ways, countless ways! Have had my eyes open to the reality of life by my best friend. And I thank her so much for her getting me out of a situation that I now see that if continued, I would regret. Or things wouldn’t have worked out…
Last year was a shitty year for me, and was really looking forward to this new year, 2010, thinking to myself that, “Ahh, a new year means I can start living a whole new me!!” But unfortunately its not how I expected this new year to start. But now settling down with the new me, Im defiantly happier than before. I’ve got my friends to thank for, that includes you best friend, for being there for me when I was down. They were always there to comfort me, listen to me whine, and just back me up when I needed help. I cant thank you people enough. Especially my best friend. =)
In fact I think I have a whole new understanding for life now. I now know that most of my life I’ll never have things done the way I want it or get what I want. Life can be a real bitch most of the time, but there’s no point crying over something that you’ve got absolutely no control over right? So what I’ve learnt is to bear with it, learn from it, and just move on with life, cause life waits for no one. I think I’ve become more real. Have been woken up from my fantasy and was hit hard by the harshness of reality. Im defiantly stronger than yesterday. Im going to push further and further in life and make sure I become what im suppose to become, and be whoever I wanna be. I aint ganna let know body change who I am. I am who I am and if people don’t like it, well that’s why too bad. You cant expect me to wear a mask forever right? So im just ganna be me.
Haiz… Lately I’ve been getting myself into a shit load of trouble. Parents been up my neck, some friends been real irritating, got myself into another accident, fml, 3rd accident in the past 3 months! Fuck this shit over and over fucking again , Basically just getting myself into trouble with every move I make,… *smacks on head*
Anyways, now I can say I think I have found the right one for me. She’s been in front of me for the past 3 years, and I was either too blind to see her or just been living in my fantasy world all this time. In my previous posts, I mentioned a girl, the girl of my dreams, and how in love I was with her. Well things change, people change, life changes… I was really willing to give up my whole world for her, but for whatever reason I got rejected by her, not once, but 3 times! She told me that she had feelings for me as well but does not want to be in a relationship with me… hmm… Go figure. Although I said all those things, like I said, my eyes have been open. Most of the time I’ve been wearing a mask in front of her and being my true self.
So now with this girl (girlfriend) I can be myself. The best thing bout this girl is that I really don’t have to do anything to try impress her! I don’t have to take her out on special dates, I don’t need to buy her gifts, I don’t need to do anything to make her want to like me! All I have to do is just be who I am and she fell for me. How much easier can things get? Lol. Jk. The point here is that I can just be myself. Now that’s something you don’t find in most girls. I can do whatever I please, as in go ta kei, shisha, club, party and just bout anything and she’s cool with it. Another attribute I so adore bout her is that she’s able to mingle with my friends. She’s not those kinda girls where they just sit there quietly and “observe” , saying “No la dear, I enjoy watching you..” I mean its kinda boring don’t you think… My girl, she gets herself involved!!!! She’s just comfortable with the people and places I hang with.
Come to think bout it, both of us have a tone of stuff in common. We’re practically the same people. I know it sounds weird and freaky, but she understands me so well. And I too understand her. We talk practically the same way, both loves a challenge, both are stupid enough to do stupid dares…. We even argue the same way… similar la….
This girl has made me laugh genuinely countless times! She’s also been one of the few people who helped me when I was down. She would come up with lame things to make me laugh, or at least put a smile on my face, she’d come all the way to my place just to make sure im doing alright, she’d even buy me strepsils just cause I had a cough.
I know im really in love with this girl, funny thing is, before we got together, we were both talking bout being players… haha! Damn stupid man those talks LMAO! She’s really an awesome girl and I wouldn’t give her up for anything the world has to offer me.
Have done and said numerous things to make her think bout our relationship to the extend that she cried, and im sorry. Am truly truly sorry for saying some of the things that I should not have said, reacting the way I reacted, or let you see even a little of my dark side I me. I promise that I’ll never let you see that side of me again. Promise…
She has really made me a happier guy. I know its weird for most people when they hear stories like this and say things like “what the hell? Its BennnnN!” or “ Yea right, Ben is just playing you…” Though things like this do cheese me off, I honestly couldn’t be bothered. Im happy with this girl and as long as I have her, its those fuckers who say things like that who are the losers!
Today, regardless of what people have to say, I’m more than happy and proud to say that
IM THE MONKEY THAT FELL FOR MY BEST FRIEND!!
I love you Abbie…
Last year was an extremely interesting year for me. New things came in life and old things in life, well some of it left. Im no longer depressed I can say proudly. Well at least no longer a sad pathetic little fuck anymore. I’ve matured in so many different ways, countless ways! Have had my eyes open to the reality of life by my best friend. And I thank her so much for her getting me out of a situation that I now see that if continued, I would regret. Or things wouldn’t have worked out…
Last year was a shitty year for me, and was really looking forward to this new year, 2010, thinking to myself that, “Ahh, a new year means I can start living a whole new me!!” But unfortunately its not how I expected this new year to start. But now settling down with the new me, Im defiantly happier than before. I’ve got my friends to thank for, that includes you best friend, for being there for me when I was down. They were always there to comfort me, listen to me whine, and just back me up when I needed help. I cant thank you people enough. Especially my best friend. =)
In fact I think I have a whole new understanding for life now. I now know that most of my life I’ll never have things done the way I want it or get what I want. Life can be a real bitch most of the time, but there’s no point crying over something that you’ve got absolutely no control over right? So what I’ve learnt is to bear with it, learn from it, and just move on with life, cause life waits for no one. I think I’ve become more real. Have been woken up from my fantasy and was hit hard by the harshness of reality. Im defiantly stronger than yesterday. Im going to push further and further in life and make sure I become what im suppose to become, and be whoever I wanna be. I aint ganna let know body change who I am. I am who I am and if people don’t like it, well that’s why too bad. You cant expect me to wear a mask forever right? So im just ganna be me.
Haiz… Lately I’ve been getting myself into a shit load of trouble. Parents been up my neck, some friends been real irritating, got myself into another accident, fml, 3rd accident in the past 3 months! Fuck this shit over and over fucking again , Basically just getting myself into trouble with every move I make,… *smacks on head*
Anyways, now I can say I think I have found the right one for me. She’s been in front of me for the past 3 years, and I was either too blind to see her or just been living in my fantasy world all this time. In my previous posts, I mentioned a girl, the girl of my dreams, and how in love I was with her. Well things change, people change, life changes… I was really willing to give up my whole world for her, but for whatever reason I got rejected by her, not once, but 3 times! She told me that she had feelings for me as well but does not want to be in a relationship with me… hmm… Go figure. Although I said all those things, like I said, my eyes have been open. Most of the time I’ve been wearing a mask in front of her and being my true self.
So now with this girl (girlfriend) I can be myself. The best thing bout this girl is that I really don’t have to do anything to try impress her! I don’t have to take her out on special dates, I don’t need to buy her gifts, I don’t need to do anything to make her want to like me! All I have to do is just be who I am and she fell for me. How much easier can things get? Lol. Jk. The point here is that I can just be myself. Now that’s something you don’t find in most girls. I can do whatever I please, as in go ta kei, shisha, club, party and just bout anything and she’s cool with it. Another attribute I so adore bout her is that she’s able to mingle with my friends. She’s not those kinda girls where they just sit there quietly and “observe” , saying “No la dear, I enjoy watching you..” I mean its kinda boring don’t you think… My girl, she gets herself involved!!!! She’s just comfortable with the people and places I hang with.
Come to think bout it, both of us have a tone of stuff in common. We’re practically the same people. I know it sounds weird and freaky, but she understands me so well. And I too understand her. We talk practically the same way, both loves a challenge, both are stupid enough to do stupid dares…. We even argue the same way… similar la….
This girl has made me laugh genuinely countless times! She’s also been one of the few people who helped me when I was down. She would come up with lame things to make me laugh, or at least put a smile on my face, she’d come all the way to my place just to make sure im doing alright, she’d even buy me strepsils just cause I had a cough.
I know im really in love with this girl, funny thing is, before we got together, we were both talking bout being players… haha! Damn stupid man those talks LMAO! She’s really an awesome girl and I wouldn’t give her up for anything the world has to offer me.
Have done and said numerous things to make her think bout our relationship to the extend that she cried, and im sorry. Am truly truly sorry for saying some of the things that I should not have said, reacting the way I reacted, or let you see even a little of my dark side I me. I promise that I’ll never let you see that side of me again. Promise…
She has really made me a happier guy. I know its weird for most people when they hear stories like this and say things like “what the hell? Its BennnnN!” or “ Yea right, Ben is just playing you…” Though things like this do cheese me off, I honestly couldn’t be bothered. Im happy with this girl and as long as I have her, its those fuckers who say things like that who are the losers!
Today, regardless of what people have to say, I’m more than happy and proud to say that
IM THE MONKEY THAT FELL FOR MY BEST FRIEND!!
I love you Abbie…
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